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Hi! I'm Hayley Quinn — dating coach, TEDx speaker, and author.

For 15 years, I’ve coached thousands of men and women — not just in theory, but face-to-face, in the real world. I believe confidence comes from action — not from scrolling apps or reading endless advice.

If you're ready to change your dating life, my channel covers:

🙋🏻‍♂️ Meeting People IRL — Skip the apps, connect offline
💪 Confidence — Build self-belief through real action
🗣️ Authentic Conversation — Ditch small talk, create chemistry
🎯 Dating With Purpose — From aimless to intentional

More about me:
🎤 My TEDx talk has 3M+ views
📺 Featured in BBC, Elle, Cosmo, USA Today & more
📚 Author of 2 books (Simon & Schuster, HarperCollins)
🌍 Based between NYC, London & SW France

Subscribe if you're done with theory — and ready to date better, for real.
❤️ Hayley

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Talking to Women 🫣

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Flirting 🙋‍♂️

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Fun Social Experiments 🔬

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